• [鳳凰院 凶真 Hououin Kyouma]|[alt: 黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui]@sh.itjust.works
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    5 months ago

    That kid is gonna get bullied in school.

    Source: I was that kid, I didn’t have a phone for most of High School (which was around the time when smartphones became popular), so I didn’t get into groupchats so I basically had no friends for most of highschool. Fun times 🫠

    (I mean this “no-smartphone” thing has to be a collective thing across society, you can’t expect this to work if only one parents does this.)

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      5 months ago

      I never gave any of my adult daughters cell phones and I don’t plan on giving them to my daughters in grade school either.

      Hard pass on my daughters getting dick pics and hanging with the popular kids

      When they are old enough to get a job and earn enough to buy one that will be fine with me.

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        5 months ago

        Your just shit parent. I gave all my teen sons Smartphones and at the same time parented my kids and kept track of what they were doing with them. I still pay for 2 of my kids phones. I love it I can track where they are at, and call and text them when I need to. Dumb take “they can pay for them” bet you still be all up in arms of what did on there even if they paid for them. You are going turn you daughters in to unknowlegable and vurable women who will have hard time later in life. All on you trying protect them. Just fucking educate them on the dangers. World scary place deal with it and make sure they are prepared for it.

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          5 months ago

          I love how on the internet all it takes for someone to call someone a shit parent is a mild difference of opinion.

          It’s just 0 -> 100 at the drop of a hat. Its fucking hilarious to me.

        • Doomsider@lemmy.world
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          5 months ago

          Lol, your kids got all fucked up and you don’t even know it. Generation mentally fucked with by tech bros, but you watched them so it is okay!? Stupid as fuck.

          I have met some dumb fuckers in my life, but you take the cake. How many dick pics did they send, nevermind you didn’t even know they did.

          My daughters are not tech literate, they used to help me build computers. They can install operating systems while all your kids know how to do is swipe.

          Do you like how I jumped to a bunch of bullshit conclusions that I have no clue about?

          You raise your kids and I will raise mine.

  • thejml@sh.itjust.works
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    5 months ago

    I miss POTS. Copper landlines are a thing of the past. Now it’s just VoIP with a battery that doesn’t last long enough and another bill. (And place for scam/telemarketers/junk calls)

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      5 months ago

      In some areas you can no longer get a landline. I was discussing this with someone who lives rural and the phone company will not serve any of the addresses outside of towns.

      That’s strange to me as I still have a POTS line and have never been without one through my different abodes. I will say that only a few calls come in on it, but I use it for outbound calls quite often. Almost all of the spam calls come in on the cellphone now.

      I remember reading about the last hand-crank phone being removed (As an aside, my memory had this happening 20 years ago. Lol, it was 35!):

      https://www.upi.com/Archives/1990/07/13/Remote-Idaho-town-retires-last-crank-call/3557647841600/

      “Smith said with hand-cranked telephones, ‘sometimes the connection cracks up and you only hear every third word.’”

      Hey, just like my cell service!

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        5 months ago

        Last I heard, all the providers in the US are in the “we’re not actively canceling them, but we won’t roll out new ones or fix problems.

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          5 months ago

          Yes, that seems to be the case. If you do cancel and move, the new owners won’t get a landline. The carrier in this particular area has also contracted out any rural service work.

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      5 months ago

      POTS isn’t quite dead in the UK, but it’s very much on the way out. The transition is slated to be complete by the end of January 2027.